TO THE GiRLS. FR0M A GUY
Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.It makes us feel secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting w/ guys we've never heard of.Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.We never have, nor never will respect/like them.Nor, do we want to hear about them.When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.We don't care if you talk to other guys.We don't care if you're "friends" with other guys.But, when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute /stunning, we freaking mean it.Don't tell us we're wrong.We'll stop trying to convince you.The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.Yeah, you can quote me.Don't be mad when we hold the door open.Smile, and say "thank you".Let us pay for you.Don't "feel bad".We enjoy doing it.It's expected.Smile and say - everybody together now..."thank you".Kiss us when noone's watching.If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.You don't have to get dressed up for us.If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of make-up you own.We like you for WHO you are not WHAT you are.Don't flirt with guys when we're not around.We'll find out.Trust me.We have eyes everywhere.And when we find out, we're pissed.Not nessecarily with the guy/s you flirted with, more-so with you.Don't take everything we say seriously.Sarcasm is a beautiful thing.See the beauty in it.Don't get angry easily.Stop using magazines/media as your bible.Don't talk about how hot "Tom Cruise" or "Brad Pitt" is in front of us.It's boring, and we don't care. You have girlfriends for that.Whatever happened to the word "handsome"? Why does everything have to be "hot/sexy".I'd be utterly stunned by a girl who greeted me with a "hey handsome" instead of a "hey baby, stud, cutie, sexy" whatever you can think of.Claiming girls or guys to be "hot" shows immaturity.Girls, I cannot stress this enough, if you aren't being treated right by a guy, don't wait for him to change.Ditch his sorry, disgrace-to-the-male-population ass, and find someone who will treat you with utter respect. Someone who will honor your morals.Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.. 

And I think I've finally found this guy.  He's someone I don't have to worry about, flirting with another girl.  He actually cares about me and it's exactly what I need at a time like this.  I've found guys who have had potential, but he seems so much better!  He's such an amazing guy, and I'm lucky to have found him.  I just wish I could let him know that...

<3 in love...

xoxox

i love to steal everything from you now...hehe, kidding!

she's gonna kill me once she finds out i stole this from her too.

i want a boy---
who can wrestle with me
and let me win.
who i can talk to about anything
who laughs at my jokes.
a boy who puts my cold hands
in his warm hoodie pockets.
who lets me use his sweatshirt
for a pillow.
who buys me 25 cent rings,
and has sticky hands.
who says i love you & means it.
who will kiss me in the rain,
in the sunshine, and in the snow.
whos calls unexpectedly.
who will have many inside jokes
with and me remember each one.
a boy who notices girls haircuts.
who realizes that girls say things
but dont always mean them.
who shows up at my games,
slipping in the door.
who i can go swimming with
on hot days.
who can tell me his problems
and let me help.
who will listen to me talk--
about the new nail polish i got.
who will bring me seashells
from the beach.
who will let me beat him up
when i get angry.
who writes love letters to me,
but doesnt send them.
who draws pictures and slips them
gently into my locker slot.
who saves his genuine, big smiles for me.
a boy with deep eyes,
that can see through faces into depths.
who wears baseball hats and
lets me wear his too.
who gives me his t-shirt to change into
and does not expect to get it back.
who knows my favorite color, song,
car, vegetable, perfume and
the color of my toothbrush.
a boy who will shake my dads hand
and look my mother in the eye.
who will call me by my full name--
first, middle and last.
a boy who will kiss me and
tell me im pretty.
a boy who will let me cry to him.
who will squeeze my hips just right.
who suprises me and compliments
my manicure and plays with my hair.
who knows when i have a math test
or when i fail one.
a boy who smells like
he just stepped out of the shower.
who wears cologne that i can subtly
smell when im leaning on his shoulder.
who tells me i have a nice laugh
and a smile that lights up the room
and simply be mine to hold.

you know this is true...every girl needs a guy just like this.  and i hope i find mine soon.  but i'm out now, time for some sleep.  it's been an interesting weekend.  and i slept through my favorite show, and i'm a bit upset about that...lol.  i had to fix a damn virus on my computer that kept sending itself to everyone on my buddylist on AIM.  one of those damn links that says it's pictures...saying "CLICK ME DAMNIT"...lol yea one of those.  and the one time today it said, "ow my leg" or something like that.  now people think i hurt myself today.  i hate people who make up dumb shit like that.  those kind of people need lives.

like i said before, i'm out!

xoxox

If you are a dude…then you need to read this…but if you are a dudette… then you need a lil laugh n here it is!!! <33

*30 THINGS GUYS SHOULD KNOW ABOUT GIRLS: written by a guy. after years of experience.* 

1.Whatever you do, don't just show up at their house...they run around in their underwear just like we do.

2. DON'T CHEAT ON THEM. It may seem foolproof, but girls tell each other everything about everything. Trust me, they WILL find out and you will be mud.

3. Beware of every single male relative and all guy friends. Any of them would kick your ass at the drop of a hat, and a lot of them wouldn't even wait for the damn hat.

4. Never miss an opportunity to tell them they're beautiful.  

5. Don't refuse to kiss in front of your friends. If they laugh at you, it's because they're jealous.

6. If they slap you hard, you deserved it.

7. Don't be afraid to touch them if you want to. If they're going out with you in the first place, it's because they like being in your arms.

8. If you don't sleep with them, do not tell your friends that you did.

8.5 If you DO sleep with them, still do not tell your friends that you did.

9. You can be dirty minded in private, really...most of them are not offended by it...

10. Not all of them eat like birds, a lot of them can eat like whales.

11. Most of them don't mind paying half of everything, but they do discuss these things with their friends. Realize that if you make your girlfriend pay half all the time, everyone will know about it and your friends will know you're a pussy..

12. Every girl should eventually get three things from her boyfriend- a stuffed animal, one of his sweatshirts, and a really pretty ring. Even if it's not a serious relationship.

13. Make sure she gets home safely as often as you can. If you're dropping her off, walk her to the door. If you aren't dropping her off, call to be sure she's home safely.  

14. If a guy is bothering her, it is your right to beat the crap out of him.

15. If you're talking to a female friend of yours, pull your girlfriend closer.

16. Never, ever slap her, even if it's just in a joking way. Even if she swats you first, and says, "Oh, you're so dumb" or something, never make any gestures back.

17. Go to a chick flick once in a while. She doesn't care whether you enjoy it or not, it just matters that you went.

18. You're dead meat if you can't get along with their pets, parents, and best friends. Be prince charming to their friends, Mr. Polite to their parents, and make sure to be nice to their animals.

19. Don't flirt with their moms...that's just freaky.

20. Don't be freaked out by PMS. It's not gross, and it really does make them feel like shit, so be understanding.

21. If you don't like the way they drive, you do it.

22. If you're officially dating, and you're introducing her to your friends, you'd better damn well introduce her as your girlfriend.

23. Don't stress where you go for every date. They really only want to be with you.

24. If they complain that something hurts, rub it for them without being asked.

25. Girls are fragile. Even if you're play fighting/wrestling, be very gentle.

26. Memorize their god damn birthdays. You forget her birthday and you're basically screwed for life.

27. Don't marinade the cologne, but smell good.

28. Don't give her something stupid for her birthday or Christmas or Valentine's day. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it has to be meaningful.

--THE TRUTH AB0UT GiRLS--
- midol is like crack; end of story.
- we love ben & jerrys more than you.
- we will never be too old for sleepovers.
- gossip isn`t a sin; it`s an art.
- we must go to the bathroom in groups.
- we have this thing called feelings; don`t hurt them.
- there`s no point in having an ex if you can`t be a bitch to him.
- we don`t wake up looking pretty. it takes time & effort.
- sometimes is just never quite enough.
- we need girls nights; OFTEN.
- we hold grudges & we never forget the things you say to us that hurt.
- it doesn`t matter who dumped who or why. whenever we see an ex with another girl, it always bothers us.. not because we`re not over you, but because we know we used to be that girl.
- no guy wants to marry a whore. well, no girl wants to marry a manwhore either.
- never ever ask a girl what she weighs; or imply anything about her weight being too much or too little. just don`t do it.
- our eyes are located in our heads. not our chest or butt. So when you`re not looking in our eyes, WE KN0W.

You boys gotta keep this in mind...

xoxox